You have Haters?

     Think about your life, what you’re doing with it & what goes on in it. Now tell me, do you have anything worth hating on for you to be able to say you have haters?  The word hater is used so frequently these days that I think people have either forgotten or never knew the real definition of a hater.  My definition of a hater is someone who lacks a purpose & vision for their own life. When you’re doing what’s necessary for you to make something of yourself & making moves to make your dreams your reality, there’s always going to be someone who’s hating on that. They’re hating because they didn’t or don’t have the courage, strength nor faith to go after what they want out of life. Haters are also fans because in order for them to commentate on you & what you’re doing they have to follow & observe you, instead of using that time to better themselves. People who have haters don’t feel the need to say they have haters because they are too busy & focused on fulfilling their own purpose & destiny. There’s no need to acknowledge the unimportant hence that’s why they’re not important. Giving shout outs to your haters is giving them recognition & lets them know that they’re on your mind. This in turn can make you look foolish if one you don’t even have haters & two who gives spotlight to haters/the unimportant. Now when saying you have a hater or haters, please make sure that you actual have something worth hating on.  I find it extremely amusing when someone says “Oh she’s hating on me because I have a man & she doesn’t”. Really?  She’s hating on you because you have a man who treats you bad & talks to you like you’re one of his boys or child? I don’t see why someone would hate on that. Granted there are people who do hate on others relationships because they don't have one of their own or don't have the type of relationship someone else has but be 100% sure that your relationship is a great one with a strong foundation , love & respect before you make a claim that someone is hating. You don’t have haters if you are not doing anything with your life. You don’t have haters if you’re not trying to fulfill your purpose in life & let your talents & gifts lye dormant. You don’t have haters if you represent the “hood life” or “thug life”. You don’t have haters if you’re pregnant by a deadbeat & neither one of you are working to support your child. You don’t have haters if you’re a very pretty girl but you let any man who says hi to you & shows interest in you get sex from you. You don’t have haters if you’re in a relationship where there isn’t real love & is an unhealthy one. You don’t have haters if your life is filled with nothing but drama & confusion. You don’t have haters if you hate your own life.  Think first & reevaluate yourself & your life before you go & embarrass yourself by stating you have haters when in all actuality you have ABSOULETLY NOTHING worth hating on.